Key Takeaways
- After splitting from his wife, Acacia, in 2022, Jairus has been linked to new girlfriends, each drawing social media scrutiny.
- Fans criticize Jairus as a “deadbeat dad” for focusing on relationships and music over parenting.
- Rumour has it that he’s involved with his new girlfriend, Alaena Potocnik, known as “Vampira.”
Jairus Kersey, former lead singer of the band “Alive Like Me,” has frequently been the subject of online discussions, especially regarding his relationships.
Since his separation from Acacia Brinley in late 2022, Jairus’s connections with multiple new girlfriends have frequently sparked debates and scrutiny online.
By 2023, rumours surfaced on Reddit about a new girlfriend, Olivia, whom many users noted bore a striking resemblance to Acacia.
Jairus new girlfriend looking alarmingly like acaci… like seriously.
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This sparked immediate online interest as users compared the two women’s aesthetics and commented on the similarities.
Some Reddit users even suggested that Olivia had deactivated her social media accounts due to backlash surrounding their relationship, possibly due to accusations of “copying” Acacia’s style and image.
Others reported seeing her switch usernames – from @livpixie to a private account, @fractal.firefly – before it, too, was eventually deleted.
In mid-2023, an X (formerly Twitter) user tweeted:
Jairus Joseph Kersey is a loser and a child groomer. He’s cheated on every girlfriend he’s ever had, refuses to work and leeches off of their income, lived with and statutory raped a 17 year old and got her pregnant for the first time at 18, impregnated her twice more,
— I’m Not Guinevere Beck (@exposingrich) April 17, 2023
Most recently, on October 30, 2024, another Reddit post added fuel to the fire, addressing concerns that Jairus might be neglecting his children in favour of music and his new relationship.
His new girlfriend, @sheisalaena, responded directly to critics, defending him by saying that outsiders shouldn’t judge their private matters without understanding the whole story.
Users in the community responded heatedly to Jairus’s girlfriend defending him, accusing her of ignoring concerns over his children’s well-being and supporting him even with the “deadbeat dad” label.
In line with this theory, a few Reddit users speculated that he might be manipulating his girlfriend by casting himself as a victim, avoiding accountability for his parenting responsibilities.
Amid these discussions, users noticed that @sheisalaena was deleting critical comments on her Instagram, which some saw as an effort to protect herself from the increasing backlash.
Opinions within these online communities were divided—some users doubted the stability of the relationship. In contrast, others criticized Jairus for his apparent lack of a stable career and his controversial past.
In a new discussion thread, users questioned Jairus Kersey’s latest relationship, focusing on his past actions and limited presence in his children’s lives.
Girl…. Why? 😵💫
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Many users highlighted his history and expressed scepticism about his intentions, suggesting that his partner might be ignoring potential “red flags” or unaware of his past.
Some pointed out behaviours resembling “love-bombing” and shared concerns that she could be at risk because of low confidence or personal struggles.
On a similar thread, users harshly criticized Jairus for allegedly prioritizing a bachelor lifestyle over his responsibilities as a father.
This perceived neglect, they argued, reflected poorly on his character, with some users describing him as more invested in his new relationships and music career than in his children.
Of course…
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Currently, Jairus is believed to be in a relationship with Alaena Potocnik (“Vampira”).
Alaena, a professional boxer with a record of 1-0-1, has gained attention in the boxing scene for her striking presence and skill.
Born in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, and currently fighting out of Sherman Oaks, California, Alaena, standing 5’8″ with a reach of 68.9 inches, recently fought in the Misfits & DAZN X Series on May 25, 2024.
Though she’s newer to the professional boxing world, Alaena’s bold fighting style and dedication to the sport have made her a compelling figure to watch.
Alaena, also an artist, is also followed by Jairus’s ex-wife, Acacia, which has added further intrigue to the situation.
However, not much else is publicly known about their relationship, as neither has shared many details openly.
Inside Jairus Kersey’s Marriage with Acacia Brinley
Acacia Brinley and Jairus Kersey started dating publicly in 2015, captivating fans with frequent glimpses into their relationship.
They married on April 22, 2018, and welcomed three children: Brinley Kersey in 2017, Rosemary Kersey in 2018, and Cali Kersey in 2020.
Acacia shared many family milestones on Instagram and YouTube, but in October 2021, she decided to take a break from social media.
On December 28, 2022, Acacia confirmed their separation in an Instagram post, stating they had been apart for some time.
Although she provided few details, Acacia assured followers that she and the children were focusing on healing and moving forward from the split.
Acacia’s openness about her parenting challenges post-separation has drawn public empathy.
Her recent TikTok posts, which some fans noted seemed to address her current relationship dynamics with Jairus, might also aim to gather support amid these ongoing struggles.
However, other Reddit users criticized her for discussing family matters online while claiming to seek privacy, interpreting her posts as a subtle criticism of Jairus’s new relationship and behaviour.
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As speculation continues, the public remains invested in the unfolding dynamics between Jairus, his current partner, and his ex-wife Acacia, with new threads and updates appearing regularly on Reddit forums.
In Case You Didn’t Know
- Jairus Kersey, born on September 2, 1991, was raised alongside his brother, Jaedan.
- He and bassist David Knox formed the band, Alive Like Me, in 2013 and then used Craigslist to search for a guitarist and drummer.
- In 2014, he debuted his first studio album, titled “Only Forever.”
